By David Treatman
If you’re reading this on your smartphone, you are breaking the eighth commandment.
Perhaps right now you are reading this as you ride the subway; maybe you are at the dinner table; or quite possibly you are at a party or a get-together. By choosing to give your phone some or all of your attention, you are stealing from those around you. I don’t simply mean that phones steal from us by wasting our time going down the rabbit hole of social media. I mean that they cause us to rob each other of our real presence and of our attention. The amount of conversations that I have been in with my peers, in which they are texting or scrolling through social media as I am talking to them, is uncanny. When they eventually look up, they expect me to repeat what I was just telling them, stretching conversations out indefinitely to make space for simultaneous others. The lack of reciprocity and attention that are products of dividing our consciousness between real and on-line existences detracts from authentic shared moments. [Read more…]