Ramah Day Camp Tour

Come take a tour and discover all Ramah Day Camp has to offer.

Camp is for kids PreK – 7th grade, and there is a CIT program for those in grades 8 – 10.

Sports!

Art!

Swimming!

… and more!

Special needs program, transportation, lunch and extended care are all available.

Café Conversation: Neil Lanctot

Sit down for a chat with Neil Lanctot, Ph.D., baseball historian and author of Campy: The Two Lives of Roy Campanella, hailed “a rich and thoroughly enjoyable book” by the Los Angeles Times.  Books will be available for sale and signing. Click here to purchase your copy of Campy from the Museum Store in advance.  For more information on Campy, visit the author’s website.

 

Ramah Day Camp Tour

Come take a tour and discover all Ramah Day Camp has to offer.

Camp is for kids PreK – 7th grade, and there is a CIT program for those in grades 8 – 10.

Sports!

Art!

Swimming!

… and more!

Special needs program, transportation, lunch and extended care are all available.

21 Ways To Help Israel

By Naomi FeinmesserIsrael is at war, and over the last few weeks, I have received requests from across the globe from friends, family, friends of friends and friends of family, asking me if I know any ways that they can help Israel in her time of need. There are so many ways to help, and particularly for those not in Israel and who are therefore not able to send physical items through local collections, here are some reputable websites through which you can donate:
1) Underwear Campaign 
Care packages for soldiers, sending underwear and other essentials. Also using stores in the South to support their businesses in this difficult time.2)Ben Goldstein PayPal ID: [email protected]
Ben is going regularly to the soldiers, delivering whatever they request. High up on the list is usually deodorant, shaving equipment, underwear and cold drinks. At the moment he is not a registered charity, but if you look him up on Facebook you can see what he is doing. He has supplied to a number of bases, including the base where one of my neighbors is serving.3) One Israel Fund 
One Israel Fund is providing security and medical equipment to Southern communities. They have helped prevent terrorist attacks and infiltrations, some of which you may have read about over the last few weeks.4) Supplies for IDF 
Care packages of new towels, socks, shampoo, toothbrushes, toothpastes, etc. being sent to our troops on the front lines.5) Yashar Lachayal 
A well-known soldier organization, providing soldiers with needed equipment as is requested.

6) Lone Soldier Center 
The Michael Levin Lone Soldier Center is providing help specifically to lone soldiers. Sadly we lost 2 lone soldiers in Gaza yesterday.

7) United Hatzalah 
United Hatzalah is looking to better equip their volunteers who are serving the South. The communities they serve and live in are being besieged by missiles, and the volunteers are doing everything they can to keep people safe, but they don’t have the equipment they need to protect their own lives. The request from these volunteer coordinators is to send an additional 100 bulletproof vests and helmets to volunteers to be able to safely respond to emergency calls without putting themselves at grave risk.

8) Summer Vacation Project 
Every Child Deserves a Summer Vacation campaign, to get kids under constant rocket fire out of the South and away for a day on a special outing.

9) One Family Retreats 
Another organization getting families out of the South, and also providing support to victims of terror.

10) Hotline For Families With Disabilities 
Beit Issie Shapiro, Israel’s leading disabilities organization, is running a hotline to provide emotional support and suggest practical solutions to people with a disability and their families.

11)Support For Families Of Soldiers: Paypal ID: [email protected]
Life under rocket fire is hard enough, and my good friend Elana is organizing help for families where the husband is on reserve duty, be it a takeaway dinner or cleaning help, and this is really appreciated by the families. She is also sending pizza to bases in need of a pick-me-up.

12) More Support For Reserve Families 
Another site supporting the miluim (reserve) families.

13) Shmira Project 
Sign up to do Guard Duty for our soldiers. Whilst they are serving in the field, each of us can sign up to receive the name of a soldier and commit to do good deeds, give charity or whatever takes your fancy in order to spiritually protect our people out there.

14) Pray For Wounded Israeli Soldiers

15) Read Tehillim (Psalms) 
An amazing website where you can read the chapter of Tehillim that is next to be read, and as a People we can complete the book of Tehillim multiple times. At the time of this writing, the book has been completed 925 times!

16) Pray In General! 
There have been suggestions to recite particularly Psalms numbers 20, 83, 91, 121,130, 144.

17) A Link To The Prayer For The IDF, In English and in Hebrew

18) Send A Picture Or A Thank You Card To Soldiers Serving On The field. 
They really appreciate them and they are great for morale!

19)Help Fight The Social Media War
Israel has long suffered from attacks in media and online. Stay accurately informed by following reputable people on Facebook and Twitter, such as StandWithUs, The Muqata, Alarm Darom, Lahav Harkov, Israel News Feed, Michael Dickson, IDF Spokesperson, Avi Mayer, Ofir Gendelman and Peter Lerner. Be careful. Only post links and news items from reputable sites. Don’t spread information that has not been confirmed by Israel.

20)Honest Reporting 
Don’t let inaccurate reporting go unreported. Write to your local members of government, and write to the press to bring media bias to task.

21)If anyone has a holiday home that they would be willing to open up to residents of the South, please contact [email protected]

 

Contributed by Hannah Katsman.  Hannah Katsman is the creator of A Mother In Israel, a community of Olim.

Thousands Rally at Love Park to Support Israel

Montgomery County Commissioner Josh Shapiro applauds as Rep. Chaka Fattah (PA-2) affirms Israel's right to defend itself. (Photo: PJVoice)

Federation CEO Naomi Adler and Montgomery County Commissioner Josh Shapiro applaud as State Senator Anthony Hardy Williams affirms Israel’s right to defend itself. (Photo: PJVoice)

Members of the Greater Philadelphia Jewish Community joined in a rally in support of Israel at JFK Plaza (“Love Park”), 16th Street and JFK Boulevard, on Wednesday, July 23, 2014.

The event was sponsored by the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia; the Philadelphia Jewish Voice; American Associates, Ben-Gurion University of the Negev; American Friends of Magen David Adom; American Jewish Committee; Anti-Defamation League; Boys Town Jerusalem Foundation of America; The Collaborative; Consulate General of Israel to the Mid-Atlantic Region; Female Hebrew Benevolent Society; Hadassah of Greater Philadelphia; Jewish Exponent; Jewish Learning Venture; Jewish National Fund; J-Street; Philadelphia ZOA; and Tribe 12, along with several synagogues and schools. Several schools and other groups organized buses to the rally.

Across the street, on the steps of the Municipal Services Building, 15th and JFK Boulevard, pro-Palestinian demonstrators held a counter-rally.

Michael Hersch, Philadelphia Area Director of the Jewish Labor Committee, said of the rally,

I am a first-generation American, that is also the grandchild of four Holocaust survivors, and I dedicated my career to Jewish communal service, and I think this is a moment where Jewish people have to remind each other that there’s certain things we’re going to agree to agree on.

Noting that much of the political progressive community has taken a stance hostile to Israel, when asked if there is still a place in the progressive community for pro-Israel sentiment, Hersch said, “It’s really difficult for me to comment on what other individuals and other organizations see as an appropriate stance for them to take on Israel. I feel like Israel, like other nations, has good and bad about it, and I feel like the people of Israel are my people, I have family that live over there, so for me it’s an organic stance that I take. This feels like the right place for me to be, and I can’t speak to what other progressives are thinking and doing with regards to Israel.”

Sherrie R. Savett, President of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, greeted everyone attending, saying, “ I am overwhelmed by all of you who have come here today to stand with Israel. It’s hard to estimate, but I believe there are thousands of you here, standing strong with Israel. It just shows, that for Israel and for us, it was highly necessary for us to have this rally.”

Savett quoted a letter from Rabbi Neil S. Cooper, of Temple Beth Hillel-Beth El in Wynnewood, who was in Israel, stating,

To stand with Israel is not about politics, it’s not about right and left, it’s about right and wrong. Standing up for Israel in her time of need means to put aside internal differences in order to come together and show that we are united in our support and solidarity with Israel….

I have been in constant contact with friends and representatives in Israel, and they told me something that surprised me. The men, women, and children of Israel feel isolated. The Israelis are the most resilient people that I’ve ever known, they are forever committed to living normal lives in the Middle East, the only democracy in that region. But nothing is normal now. They have been barraged by, on average, one hundred forty missiles a day, for the past two weeks. They are being attacked by air, on sea, and on their own land in the south.” In the Federation’s partnership community Netivot-Sedot Negev, Cooper wrote, “children cannot go to camp or school, adults cannot go to work or run errands. They cannot be more than fifteen seconds away from a shelter at any moment, taking a shower can be positively nerve racking, everyone is on edge. Children are simply traumatized. The support of North American Jews and non-Jews, our support, is a major boost to the Israelis. Our support, both emotional and financial, really matters to the Jewish people of Israel, and to all the people of Israel….

Over the last two weeks, nearly two thousand rockets were fired against Israel. Twenty-nine members of the IDF (Israel Defense Forces) and three civilians lost their lives, may their memories be for a blessing. The loss of life is a tragedy. I must firmly say every life lost is a tragedy, not just an Israeli life. Every person who has perished in this war was beloved by their families, and we profoundly mourn the loss of innocent life on both sides of this painful conflict. We pray that peace to the region will be restored soon. Peace requires partners, and Hamas must stop these daily and indiscriminate attacks. Their victimization of Israelis, as well as their own innocent people, whom they use as human shields for storing weaponry, is deplorable.

Cooper’s letter called for “an end to the violence, and to prevent further unnecessary death and despair, that has imperiled lives both in Israel and in Gaza”

Savett noted that US and European airlines suspended flights to and from Tel Aviv, and said, “Now more than ever, we must demonstrate our unwavering support for, and solidarity with, our brothers and sisters in Israel. Your presence today is vitally important, so we are videotaping this rally and sending the video to our Federation’s partnership community so they know just how much the people of Philadelphia care for them.” Savett spoke also of “disturbing images in the media from around the world, showing anti-Israel and anti-Semitic demonstrations. It becomes increasingly important for Israel to see images and to hear words of love and solidarity.”

Rabbi Greg Marx, of Congregation Beth Or in Maple Glen, gave the invocation for the rally. Marx led the group in the chant from the Hassidic Rabbi Nachman of Bratzlav, Gesher Tzar Me’od; veha’ikar lo ‘lfachayd klal (Hebrew for “The world is a narrow bridge, but the main thing is to not be afraid). Marx added:

They [the Israelis] are not afraid, and we too will not be afraid. We will not be afraid of those who will hate us, solely because we love Israel. We will not be afraid to stand with our brothers and sisters, who have to run into bomb shelters with only seconds to spare. We will not be afraid to defend Israel as it seeks security and deterrence.

We will not be afraid of a violent protest driven be anti-Semitism across the globe, with the goal of forcing us to cower and hide. We will not be afraid to sing Hatikava [the Israeli national anthem] with a lump in our throat, and hope in our heart. We will not be afraid to say ’I am proud of Israel for her strength and for her restraint.’”

Naomi Adler, CEO of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, thanked everyone for their support of Israel, and added, “Please don’t let it stop now. Stay in touch with us (the Federation), tell us when you’re in Israel, come with us to Israel to show your solidarity. Support Israel in every way that you possibly can. So not forget this day, and stand with Israel every day.” Adler then introduced members of the Christian clergy who came to show support for Israel. “Support for Israel crosses all religious denominations,” she added.

Wayne Kimmel, Treasurer of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, spoke next, saying,

I’m here today to support Israel. I’m here today to support peace. I’m here to support our own Israeli Prime Minister, who is from Philadelphia, Benjamin Netanyahu. I’m here to support the soldiers of the IDF. I’m here to support the citizens of Israel, and most importantly, their right to defend themselves from terrorists.

Kimmel introduced Elad Strohmayer, Deputy Consul General for the Mid-Atlantic region.

Thirty-two Israeli heroes,” Strohmayer began, “have fallen within the past two weeks, while exercising their highest duty, defending our people. Three Israeli civilians were killed by Hamas rockets only because they were Israelis. 2100 rockets have been fired at Israel in the last three weeks by Hamas, causing terror and fear, in an attempt to disrupt our daily routine…..

But let me be clear: we will not surrender. The Israeli people are resilient and strong. We choose life, and we will not let Hamas war crimes dictate how we live. Come walk in the streets of Israel today. You may see people that may be afraid but are still strong, afraid for their own safety and for the lives of their loved ones who are in the field of battle, but strong as we continue to strive. Summer camps go on with security adjustments, restaurants and cafes are full of people who want to enjoy the sunny days. And yes, our airport is open….

We’re gathered here today to say, enough is enough. We have shown restraint in the face of 9000 rockets that were fired at Israel since 2005. We have shown restraint when they kidnapped soldiers, slew innocent children, and dug tunnels of terror under Gaza to infiltrate Israel and kill more people. We have shown this restraint because unlike the deadly terrorists of Hamas, we cherish human lives, no matter if it’s the life of an Israeli or a Palestinian. Saying the IDF is the most moral army in the world is not an empty slogan. Hams is using its own people as human shields. They’re firing at us from within schools, mosques, and hospitals. The IDF identifies these terrorists hidden within civilian populations in Gaza, and alerts the innocent people to evacuate. But Hamas not only asks them to ignore these warnings, but actually threatens them and physically forces them to stay in their homes. Hamas war crimes tactics are the reason we have taken on so many casualties.

Pointing out the pro-Palestinian demonstrators across the street form the rally, Strohmayer said, “I don’t hate them, I feel sorry for them. I’m sorry that their hearts are full of hate. Around the world we see demonstrators shouting ’Death to Israel, death to the Jews,’ with burning hatred in their eyes. Synagogues were broken into and burned in Paris. Pro-Israel demonstrators are terrorized by anti-Semites, and yes, it’s time to call it what it is, it’s anti-Semitism. Anti-Semitism again raises its ugly face.”

The next speaker, Professor Ed Turzanski, co-chair of the Foreign Policy Research Institute’s Center for the Study of Terrorism, is also a Professor of Political science at LaSalle University.

During the Second World War, Winston Churchill came to the United States, when the atrocities of Bataan had become known. When he came to the Congress, he asked one question, ‘What kind of people do they think we are?’ As we see Israel under attack today, we have to ask the question of ourselves, ’What kind of people do they think we are?’ …

Turzanski challenged the news media,

Have you ever read the Hamas charter? Do you know what it says, not just about Jews, but anyone who is not of their Muslim faith? Do you not recognize the common sense connection between action and consequence? There are those, some of them in very high places, who will have a moment off camera, where they say something which they then do not repeat off camera, because they know that the truth is different. We’re here to remind people of that truth.

Referring to the pro-Palestinian demonstrators across the street, Turzanski said, “Our friends across the way are very angry, and they have a reason to be angry. Their people are subjected to horrible treatment, but if they want to exercise the right of anger, they have to exercise the responsibility to identify the source of their misery.” Addressing the pro-Palestinian demonstrators, Turzanski said, “Hamas has ruined your country. They have ruined the lives of your children. They have taught hatred to your children, from the earliest of age. They have denied you the opportunity to develop a land that Israel left voluntarily nine years ago. What have you done with that land? You have built tunnels so you can protect missiles. You have built tunnels so that you can go to Israel to kidnap and murder the innocent. Is this your idea of taking a land that was given to you so that you can fulfill your deepest aspirations?”

Philadelphia Mayor Michael Nutter recalled his recent trip to Israel:

I am deeply saddened and concerned by the weeks of violence that so many of us in Philadelphia, the United States and the world are experiencing daily and up to the minute because of the severe conflicts and bombings taking place in the Middle East. In my travels last year to Tel Aviv, Jerusalem and Bethlehem on behalf of our great City, I had the opportunity to talk with businesspeople, students, parents, community leaders, academics, religious leaders and government officials –  Israelis and Palestinians, and remarkably, many expressed the same desires and hopes -to live in peace, to be safe and secure and to have better lives for themselves and their children. It is so clear that we must all seek a peaceful resolution to the on-going conflict, and that a mutually agreed upon and enforceable cease-fire is needed immediately. You cannot pursue peace, and engage in fighting at the same time, that won’t work to resolve anything. It is my deepest hope that the two parties will heed the call of President Barack Obama to bring about a peaceful end to the current hostilities, that each party will acknowledge the other parties’ concerns and rights to live peacefully and securely, and that longer term sustainable solutions can be discussed, negotiated, mediated and agreed upon that recognizes each parties’ right to exist, to be secure and to defend itself from harm and danger. The Middle East, and the world, need peace now.

Congressman Chaka Fattah (D-PA) issued a statement on the subject:

I am deeply saddened by the unnecessary loss of any and all lives during this latest crisis in the Middle East. Today, and every day, I stand with Israel and support its right to defend itself and its citizens.

I have supported the Iron Dome since its inception, and continue to be reassured by its success over the last several weeks in intercepting hundreds of rockets and protecting the Israelis in their path. Further, I am currently working in the Appropriations Committee on supplemental funding to provide an additional $225 million to accelerate and expand the Dome’s defense capabilities.

I agree with President Obama that any cease fire negotiations must also include a demilitarization of the Gaza Strip; I support Senator Kerry’s ongoing negotiations in the country and am pleased to hear of today’s progress.

Israel is, and remains, one of America’s most important allies. We must work to swiftly end the current violence and return to unconditional cease-fire in the region. Ultimately we hope for, and work towards, the day when there is a two-state solution and living in peace can be the reality.

Perelman Union Breaking Shatters Friendships

— by Rita Ross

Last March, the school board of the Perelman Jewish Day School held a meeting at which they decided to dissolve the teachers’ union. This was done with no negotiation, no discussion and no participation of the people whose lives this would most directly affect: the teachers.

The board decided unilaterally to have each teacher negotiate his or her own contract, with tenure and seniority being eliminated and a general clause in the new handbook stating that any teacher could be terminated at will, with no due cause.

Perhaps one of the troubling aspects of this non-negotiation termination of the union is in what has happened to the once-warm and caring relationship that the teachers shared with parents and board members. People who once had close friendships are now avoiding each other and do not even make eye contact.

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The union was in place when I first started teaching at the Solomon Schechter Day School (now called the Raymond and Ruth Perelman Jewish Day School). I have never known of any irreconcilable differences, although the tenure and seniority policy never overindulged the teachers. The union accomplished important things: It allowed dedicated teachers to feel valued and appreciated by offering health and welfare benefits, and the security of knowing that they were assured of employment.

In my tenure as a parent of an alumnus and a teacher of 27 years, I had always felt myself to be part of a community, a member of the Perelman family. How the board’s action can improve Jewish education and benefit our children and the teachers is hard to reconcile given the hard feelings that it has engendered.

Rita Ross taught first grade for 27 years at the Perelman Jewish Day School. She is now retired as a teacher and is the author of Running from Home, a memoir of her experience during the holocaust. She is a frequent lecturer on anti-Semitism and the need for tolerance.

Philadelphia’s Contemporary Israeli Music Choir

— by Odaya Szulanski

From its inception in 1995, the composition and repertoire of the Philadelphia-based Chavurat Hazemer, “the singing group,” represented the ethnic mosaic of the Israeli society.

The Chavurah performs in different events of the local Israeli community and of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia. Their musical appearances emphasize the bond between the Jewish people and their land, and the Jewish cultural heritage, history and traditions throughout the ages.

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The Chavura was started by a group of amateur Israeli singers, most of whom with past experiences in choirs, under the musical directorship of Curtis Institute of Music graduate Boaz Ben Moshe. It was sponsored primarily by the Israeli Ministry of Foreign affairs. The sponsorship of the Israeli ministry helped defray expenses, which were otherwise covered by the singing members of the Chavurah.

Following the departure of Ben Moshe and singer Rina Ben Yehoshua, Julia Zavadsky, a graduate of the Rubin Academy of Music in Israel and the Temple School of Music in Philadelphia, was appointed as musical director. She had recruited a professional piano accompanist and Rubin graduate, Michal Hefer, to rehearse weekly with the Chavurah.

Currently, the Chavurah counts with twenty members, three of whom soloists. The current musical director is Valerie Lomazov, and the professional piano accompanist is Rita Lomazov.

The Chavurah meets once a week for rehearsals. To join the choir or to engage them for an occasion, call Dalia Daskal at (267)882-7326 or Odaya Szulanski at (610)348-8495.  

A Home Away From Home for IDF Volunteers


IDF troop swearing-in ceremony. Photo by IDF.

— by Ronit Treatman

“If you will it, it is no dream,” Theodore Herzl wrote in his book The Old New Land in 1902. This phrase has inspired Jews from around the world to help make the Zionist endeavor a reality for more than a century.

This proud tradition continues to this day. Currently, 6,000 volunteers from abroad are serving in the Israeli Defense Forces. Their official status is that of “lone soldiers,” because they leave their families behind and come to Israel alone.

The Lone Soldier Center in Memory of Michael Levin aims to build a community and be a family to these soldiers when they are in Israel.
In 2003, Michael Levin, Josh Flaster, and Ari Kalker sat around a table in Tel Aviv and shared fond memories of celebrating Shabbat at their Jewish summer camp in the U.S. They enjoyed telling about the delicious Shabbat dinners, and the special feeling that came over the camp as everyone sat around the table singing Shabbat songs.

They imagined that their life in Israel as IDF soldiers would be a lot like that. Instead, as foreign volunteers, they found themselves very isolated. Israel is a very family-oriented society, and Levin, Flaster and Kalker did not have their families with them. As a result, when they were on a leave, they found themselves eating cold pitas with humus in an empty apartment for Shabbat dinner.

Michael Levin was killed in action in 2006. The Center was founded in 2009. Through the Center’s work, Levin’s service and sacrifice are honored and memorialized, and his dream for lone soldiers to “never be alone” is realized.

The Lone Soldier Center has identified several needs that need to be met for lone soldiers to thrive in Israel. The Center is empowering civilians who were lone soldiers themselves to guide the future lone soldiers to success in Israel. These are the ways the Lone Soldier Center is reaching out to these soldiers:

Community:
The most important mission of the center is to provide all lone soldiers with a welcoming community, which will care for them, guide them, and support them. The center has several offices, a website, and a Facebook page that serve as resources for lone soldiers.
Meals:
Shabbat dinners and holiday meals become festive occasions when hosted by the Center. Meals are held by in Jerusalem and Tel-Aviv. The Center has partnered with The Jerusalem Great Synagogue and The Tel Aviv International Synagogue to provide spaces for these meals. Volunteers lovingly organize these meals in order to create the celebratory occasions envisioned by Levin, Flaster and Kalker.
Shelter:
Most lone soldiers arrive in Israel with few clothes and very little money. If they are not placed on a closed military base, they need to find an apartment with roommates. The Center helps match them up with other lone soldiers, and makes sure that they are signing a fair lease.Landlords in Israel are only required to provide a working cooking range, but not a refrigerator in an otherwise unfurnished apartment. The Center has a warehouse full of donated furniture and refrigerators that these soldiers may borrow. Volunteers drive the furniture to the apartments, and help carry the furniture inside.
Basic Needs Package:
Every drafting lone soldier receives a donated package of clothing, food, and equipment that they will need to start their new life in Israel.
Advocacy:
Volunteers make sure that the army complies with all of its own rules and respects all of the lone soldiers’ special rights. Amharic-speaking Ethiopian-Israeli soldiers assist other Ethiopian recruits with navigating the army. An attorney volunteers to help soldiers who are finishing their military service understand their rights as new immigrants.
Tutoring:
Not all lone soldiers come from abroad. Young people who choose to leave Haredi families to enlist in the IDF are also classified as lone soldiers. These young adults grew up immersed in a Yiddish environment, as part of an orthodox Jewish community that rejects the modern secular culture, receiving no preparation to succeed in modern Israel. The Center tutors them in Hebrew, and prepares them for their high school equivalency test, .
Special Ceremonies and Social Events:
When a lone soldier is drafted or graduates from a course, all of the other soldiers have their families there to celebrate with them. The Center sends a person to every significant celebration to rejoice over every accomplishment with every lone soldier.The Center also organizes special social events for lone soldiers to enjoy during their free time. This helps lone soldiers make friends and connect with other volunteers from around the world.
Friends Chapters in North America:
The Center is run by a small professional staff and 300 volunteers. This month, it will launch chaverim, “friends” chapters in 13 locations in North America:

  • California: San Diego.
  • Florida: Coco Beach, Jacksonville and Tampa Bay.
  • Illinois: Highland Park.
  • New York: Brooklyn, Long Island, Manhattan, Queens, Scarsdale and Westchester.
  • New Jersey: Highland Park.

Through this exciting initiative, individuals in cities across the continent will have the opportunity to raise awareness of lone soldier needs and support for the Center’s programming in their communities, schools and synagogues.

The Center is a registered Israeli non-profit with 501(c) status. All money donated goes directly to benefit lone soldiers.

For more information, or to inquire about establishing a chapter in your area, please contact the Center’s director, Josh Flaster.

Modern Marriage: DOMA Elimination Raises Many Questions


Daylin Leach officiates the marriage between Sarah and Marcia Martinez-Helfman at the Talamore Golf Club in Ambler, Pennsylvania.

— by Kenneth R. Myers, Esq.

The elimination of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and the parallel provision on the Marriage Law in Pennsylvania expand gay rights and bestow important benefits on GLBTQ communities. These include the ceremonial and symbolic element of traditional marriage, and the reduction or elimination of economic discrimination in favor of traditional marriage that continues to exist in some public laws and programs.  

But in addition, this line of cases has broadened the circumstances in which discrimination will be inferred in facially “neutral” governmental action, and has broadened the application of the doctrine of equal protection of the laws, all to the good.  

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Family law, the body of common law principles and statutes controlling marriage, adoption, divorce, support and custody issues, has been a subject of state law. Moreover, the states have been permitted to experiment and apply highly individual approaches in this area.

Until late in the last century, battles over divorce laws arose primarily in state legislatures. For decades, trips to Reno or Mexico had been common parts of a divorce “package.” These days, lawyers fight cases over the question of jurisdiction: If one of two married people travels to a place far from the marital home, is the divorce decree obtained there really binding?

The questions of how marriages formed, on the other hand, had received much less attention. Now with the advent of gay marriage, inevitable adjustments will be made in related norms and practices. Any assumptions about relationships will be revisited.

The traditional polite seating at the meal table — boy, girl, boy, girl — is surely adaptable. Other institutions will take longer to adapt.

As a formal matter, the two paths to marriage — a civil or a religious ceremony — will remain unchanged. Nonetheless, organized religions will face pressure to decide whether they too will broaden their viewpoint and grant sacramental support to gay marriage.

This revolution is surely going to pour over into heterosexual families and relationships. When a marriage — or union — breaks up, many assumptions about custody and support will no longer seem applicable.

Who is responsible for bringing up a baby? The traditional assumption that there will be a breadwinner, and that this role will survive separation and divorce, will seem antiquated. Why should the breadwinner, or the homemaker before divorce continue in that role afterward? If those roles are purely personal elections, need they be permanently binding?  

Collegeville Camp Offers 3-Week Overnight Program for $300

Camp Gan Israel Philly near Collegeville, Pennsylvania offers fourth- to eighth-grade girls a three-week overnight camp program between June 29 and July 17 for $300 instead of $1230, after receiving a grant from the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia and the Foundation for Jewish Camp.

This pricing is open to girls from the entire spectrum of the Jewish community who have never been to overnight camp and are not currently enrolled in a Jewish school. Space is limited.

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The wooded campus on the Perkiomen Creek offers canoeing, swimming, arts and craft, drama, archery, cooking, sports and more. The camp’s music program will launch this summer. Girls have the opportunity to create their own schedules by selecting activities from a list of options each week.

Anyone interested can find more information at the camp’s website, 215-852-0276 or [email protected]